Going through a divorce is such a difficult time, and it is such an emotional time.  A lot of people wonder if it is possible to go through a divorce and maintain yourself as a rational and reasonable person.  I will tell you that it is tough – but it is possible, and it will likely take some adjustments on your part.  I recently read an article that offers some great tips for both the initiating and non-initiating spouse: 

10 Tips for a Sane Divorce: Five for You, Five for Me